Don’t Get Married

Well, I was going to wait till tomorrow to share this link, but now Roissy’s got me spitting mad (not at him, needless to say)! So here:

Women’s Infidelity

Women’s relationships today follow a very predictable pattern:

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They push men for commitment
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They get what they want
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They lose interest in sex
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They become attracted to someone else
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They start cheating
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They become angry and resentful
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They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
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They blame their partners for their behavior…and eventually, after making themselves and everyone around them miserable for an indefinite, but usually, long period of time, they end their relationships or marriages.

And by the way? I have never, not once, cheated on anybody I was with.

Anyway, Roissy linked this:

H. Beatty Chadwick 13 Years in Jail Without Being Charged

One can spend a long time in jail in the U.S. without ever being charged with a crime.

It happened to H. Beatty Chadwick, a former Philadelphia-area lawyer, who has been behind bars for nearly 14 years without being charged. And this didn’t take place in some 3rd world dictatorship or tyrannical government like China or Iran it was done right here in the U.S.

No trial ever took place, Chadwick has never been allowed to face his accuser and no jury ever heard any evidence against him.

In 1994, during his divorce proceedings, a Delaware County judge (yes a county Judge) held Mr. Chadwick in civil contempt for failing to put $2.5 million in a court-controlled account. He says he lost the money in bad investments; his wife’s attorney claimed he had hidden it offshore. In April 1995, Mr. Chadwick was arrested and detained. Nearly 14 years later, Mr. Chadwick, who suffers from non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma, is still in jail — even after a retired judge was hired to help locate the money, and failed.

There is a website campaigning for this man’s freedom.

Roissy wants to believe that the man has the money hidden and is just being stubborn. I don’t; I think the money doesn’t exist. So he has been jailed for 14 years without a trial for not handing over nonexistent money. Which that tramp has no right to anyway. Thank goodness we are rid of patriarchal marriage!

Here is what I propose in the line of more civilized divorce laws:

1. Divorce should be very difficult to get. As it used to be before feminism.

2. A woman who seeks a divorce – and it’s nearly always the woman who does so – has no right to one cent of alimony or property settlement.

3. If the man seeks the divorce because he can’t stand living with the harpy or because he wants to marry someone else, then alimony or a property settlement are appropriate. If the man seeks the divorce because the tramp has been unfaithful, she has no right to one penny from him.

4. If the wife has been working outside the home while they were married, she has no right to alimony or a property settlement, since clearly she is independent and can take care of herself just like a man can.

5. Unless there is solid proof that this man is a seriously bad guy, i.e. a violent alcoholic or something of that nature, custody of the children should default to the father. A woman who wants to keep her children should have to endure also keeping their father. Click on the “stepfathers” tag to this post to see why. The most dangerous person on earth to a child is “Mommy’s boyfriend”. (Mommy herself comes in second.) Mothers will not hesitate to allow any man who makes their ginas tingle murder their children. Mother custody is pretty much accessory to infanticide. Children need their fathers to protect them from their mothers’ boytoys. And from their mothers.

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17 Responses to “Don’t Get Married”

  1. Derek Says:

    Once men realize how bad of a deal marriage is we generally consider flying solo. Just hire a surrogate mother and raise the kid ourselves.

    Some men get really fired up by this concept, but ultimately this is not something we can do. Children need a mother and a father in a committed relationship. To do anything less would be to put our own selfish desires above the needs of our kids. Kids have to come first for our civilization to survive.

    So this leaves most American men at a loss… do we take a crazy gamble and marry and American women to bring forth the next generation Or do we play it safe and leave the future to whatever civilization that replaces us?

    It's a very hard decision to make. On one had doing nothing lets the civilization that our for fathers and mothers built die and on the other we may bring more pain and destruction into this world.

    It would really help if we had a way to improve the odds of picking women who will not destroy our lives and the lives of our children.

  2. Derek Says:

    Once men realize how bad of a deal marriage is we generally consider flying solo. Just hire a surrogate mother and raise the kid ourselves.

    Some men get really fired up by this concept, but ultimately this is not something we can do. Children need a mother and a father in a committed relationship. To do anything less would be to put our own selfish desires above the needs of our kids. Kids have to come first for our civilization to survive.

    So this leaves most American men at a loss… do we take a crazy gamble and marry and American women to bring forth the next generation Or do we play it safe and leave the future to whatever civilization that replaces us?

    It's a very hard decision to make. On one had doing nothing lets the civilization that our for fathers and mothers built die and on the other we may bring more pain and destruction into this world.

    It would really help if we had a way to improve the odds of picking women who will not destroy our lives and the lives of our children.

  3. Derek Says:

    Once men realize how bad of a deal marriage is we generally consider flying solo. Just hire a surrogate mother and raise the kid ourselves.

    Some men get really fired up by this concept, but ultimately this is not something we can do. Children need a mother and a father in a committed relationship. To do anything less would be to put our own selfish desires above the needs of our kids. Kids have to come first for our civilization to survive.

    So this leaves most American men at a loss… do we take a crazy gamble and marry and American women to bring forth the next generation Or do we play it safe and leave the future to whatever civilization that replaces us?

    It's a very hard decision to make. On one had doing nothing lets the civilization that our for fathers and mothers built die and on the other we may bring more pain and destruction into this world.

    It would really help if we had a way to improve the odds of picking women who will not destroy our lives and the lives of our children.

  4. paddybrown Says:

    H. Beatty Chadwick is now free, thanks in large part to his son:

    http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/09192/983301-454.stm

    Only took 14 years. Don't you guys have a constitution or something?

  5. paddybrown Says:

    H. Beatty Chadwick is now free, thanks in large part to his son:

    http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/09192/983301-454.stm

    Only took 14 years. Don't you guys have a constitution or something?

  6. paddybrown Says:

    H. Beatty Chadwick is now free, thanks in large part to his son:

    http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/09192/983301-454.stm

    Only took 14 years. Don't you guys have a constitution or something?

  7. Female Misogynist Says:

    Paddy,

    Thank you for telling me the man is now free.

    Constitution? We used to. *sigh*

    Derek,

    I can think of one way. Choose a woman who is a traditionally religious Christian or Jew. It's not surefire but it does improve the odds. Oh, also, get married in a state that offers covenant marriage.

    You're right. About everything you said.

  8. Female Misogynist Says:

    Paddy,

    Thank you for telling me the man is now free.

    Constitution? We used to. *sigh*

    Derek,

    I can think of one way. Choose a woman who is a traditionally religious Christian or Jew. It's not surefire but it does improve the odds. Oh, also, get married in a state that offers covenant marriage.

    You're right. About everything you said.

  9. Female Misogynist Says:

    Paddy,

    Thank you for telling me the man is now free.

    Constitution? We used to. *sigh*

    Derek,

    I can think of one way. Choose a woman who is a traditionally religious Christian or Jew. It's not surefire but it does improve the odds. Oh, also, get married in a state that offers covenant marriage.

    You're right. About everything you said.

  10. The_Editrix Says:

    "Unless there is solid proof that this man is a seriously bad guy…"

    You will see from the passionate tone of this comment that I have a certain case in mind, one within my inner circle of friends, to be precise. Even in cases where the man HAS acted like a swine (left a wife who had devoted her entire life to him, his children and his profession, when he hadn't even bothered to pay, as he said he had, into her old age pension fund) there is a woman behind it. Before the "sexual liberation" there wouldn't have been women around, free and on the prowl and hell-bent to destroy somebody else's marriage, chipping the asshole of a husband away with a chisel. In the past, that paunchy, simpering, weak, slimy, characterless mollusc of a man would have been reduced to visiting prostitutes, and had remained with his wife and children whom he didn't deserve anyway. Prostitutes don't destroy marriages, only "honest" women do that. Free roaming women take advantage of that particular weak streak many men possess. At a time, when divorce was almost impossible and had socially ostracizing consequences, all that would never have happened.

  11. The_Editrix Says:

    "Unless there is solid proof that this man is a seriously bad guy…"

    You will see from the passionate tone of this comment that I have a certain case in mind, one within my inner circle of friends, to be precise. Even in cases where the man HAS acted like a swine (left a wife who had devoted her entire life to him, his children and his profession, when he hadn't even bothered to pay, as he said he had, into her old age pension fund) there is a woman behind it. Before the "sexual liberation" there wouldn't have been women around, free and on the prowl and hell-bent to destroy somebody else's marriage, chipping the asshole of a husband away with a chisel. In the past, that paunchy, simpering, weak, slimy, characterless mollusc of a man would have been reduced to visiting prostitutes, and had remained with his wife and children whom he didn't deserve anyway. Prostitutes don't destroy marriages, only "honest" women do that. Free roaming women take advantage of that particular weak streak many men possess. At a time, when divorce was almost impossible and had socially ostracizing consequences, all that would never have happened.

  12. The_Editrix Says:

    "Unless there is solid proof that this man is a seriously bad guy…"

    You will see from the passionate tone of this comment that I have a certain case in mind, one within my inner circle of friends, to be precise. Even in cases where the man HAS acted like a swine (left a wife who had devoted her entire life to him, his children and his profession, when he hadn't even bothered to pay, as he said he had, into her old age pension fund) there is a woman behind it. Before the "sexual liberation" there wouldn't have been women around, free and on the prowl and hell-bent to destroy somebody else's marriage, chipping the asshole of a husband away with a chisel. In the past, that paunchy, simpering, weak, slimy, characterless mollusc of a man would have been reduced to visiting prostitutes, and had remained with his wife and children whom he didn't deserve anyway. Prostitutes don't destroy marriages, only "honest" women do that. Free roaming women take advantage of that particular weak streak many men possess. At a time, when divorce was almost impossible and had socially ostracizing consequences, all that would never have happened.

  13. Female Misogynist Says:

    Editrix,

    Perhaps prostitution ought to be legalized, or at least tolerated. My instincts are against this, but maybe it should be.

  14. Female Misogynist Says:

    Editrix,

    Perhaps prostitution ought to be legalized, or at least tolerated. My instincts are against this, but maybe it should be.

  15. Female Misogynist Says:

    Editrix,

    Perhaps prostitution ought to be legalized, or at least tolerated. My instincts are against this, but maybe it should be.

  16. The_Editrix Says:

    Of course it should. It would cut all the sex-peddlers posing as honest women out of business. I said before that the relationship between the sexes is not quite as abysmal here in Germany as it is at your end. Maybe that is due to the fact, at least partly, that prostitution is legal here. As long as it is kept at the sidelines of society it does more good than harm. What DOES do harm is the blurring of the line between a (truly) honest woman and a prostitute.

  17. The_Editrix Says:

    Of course it should. It would cut all the sex-peddlers posing as honest women out of business. I said before that the relationship between the sexes is not quite as abysmal here in Germany as it is at your end. Maybe that is due to the fact, at least partly, that prostitution is legal here. As long as it is kept at the sidelines of society it does more good than harm. What DOES do harm is the blurring of the line between a (truly) honest woman and a prostitute.

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